Here we are again, that dreaded time of the year, HOLIDAYS! I will be so glad when they are over and done with. They just aren’t the same anymore. I have been through so many changes in the last 5 1/2 years and they just keep coming. I have people that are imposing even more changes on me. Things I have been doing for 30 plus years I’m no longer doing. I mean I know things can’t stay the same, but they are some changes that are imposed by others unfortunately. We all eventually are faced with all these changes. I never understood what my Mother went through when my Dad passed away. I now have first hand knowledge of what happens. That’s why it would be nice if others had more compassion and understanding for they one day will go through the same process. And it is life changing for sure. Empathy is so important. To at least try to understand what one is going through. For one day you may also appreciate someone’s understanding of what you are going through……believe me you will.
Jane is a Widow 