As the saying goes, you have to grab a bull by it’s horns. I am about to do this. I am making some major changes to protect myself. I know things will never be the same and that’s ok. It’s what I’ve learned that is so important and that I learned it before it was too late. I think I had blinders on after Troy died and didn’t see things as they really were or more importantly didn’t see people for who they really were. Troy and I had many discussions and I know he saw things differently than I did. Sometimes we see things through rose colored lenses and it’s important to trade them in for clear ones. Let’s just say I’ve done that. I’m sharing my discovery with others. As Johnny Nash once said “I can see clearly now”.