If you are recently widowed (if so you have my deepest condolences for having to join the club no one wants to), I want to caution you to be careful of those who seem to be there for you. During the fog we sometimes put our trust in those who will eventually deceive us. Not everyone including family is looking out for you, they sometimes turn on you after they have achieved their ultimate goal. After they have gotten from you what they wanted. Please be careful…..