A fellow widower named Thomas recently became a widower for the second time. He wrote the following I’m sure from his heart. “The day I lost you; I lost me. I’ve been trying to find myself again, but it’s hard. It’s hard because you were a huge part of my life. Not having you here is so painful. I’m just not me anymore. One day we will see each other again, but until then, I will have all those beautiful memories of you in my heart and soul.” I so understand what he means, unfortunately. All of us widows do.