When I first became a widow I made decisions that I now find myself changing. You’re in such a fog, it’s hard to understand what is happening to you. I remember my mother telling me (after Troy passed) that after my Dad passed away she found herself sitting on the couch day after day. She said she didn’t do anything but sit on the couch because she was in that widows fog. I had a will made right after Troy passed and I have now changed it. There have been circumstances that have caused me to change it. Nothing is written in stone. Im not the same person I was 9 years ago when my world was turned upside down. I had to learn to make decisions on my own. And I’ve learned so much about those people who I thought I could count on. Guess what, I can’t.
Jane is a Widow 