Thinking about Troy today and remembering how he liked fall. Troy and I were very different in many ways. But neither of us tried to change the other. We both treated our in laws with respect and love. That’s not always the case, in fact I’ve seen people change others into the kind of person they want them to be. They lose their individuality and become a clone of their partner. They do what the partner says, believes what the partner says and does and in the process lose their identity. Thanks but no thanks.
Jane is a Widow 