I realize now many years later that things I did for other people were not appreciated. But that’s the thing with hindsight. I wish I had known that spending twenty years making monthly payments on tuition would not be appreciated, I would have invested in myself. I could use that now that I’m widowed. Troy was also making a monthly payment on tuition. He had a loan and I had a loan. I’ve always believed in doing good for others cause I always thought it was appreciated, but I guess I was wrong. I’ve never taken for granted what others have done for me, but that’s me. Not everyone thinks the way you do. So for now I look at things differently. Just another change!
Jane is a Widow 