I always wish my mother-in-law a heavenly birthday. She was a one of a kind person, she was so generous and always smiling. I know that is where Troy got it from. It was so hard for me to go see her when she was dying. She wrote a note to us saying that the grandchildren were so important to her and she would do anything to be with them. I still have that note. It has faded over the years. I remember getting a sympathy card from a former patient of hers. He said if it hadn’t been for her, he would have never made it. She was his nurse when he was in the hospital and he said she made all the difference. I kept that card. It was so touching to Troy to see the impact his mother had made on others. I always treated her with love, unfortunately I have not been afforded the same. I’m so thankful for our daughter and her husband. We were different in many ways but I still loved and respected her. She was Troy’s mother after all, I owed her that. Like I said she was one of a kind….