I lost a friend lost week, I used to work with him. He was married and had several children. I feel for his widow, I can feel her pain and sorrow. It is such a hard road to travel and we have to do it alone cause no one can understand the pain unless they have been through it. I’ve watched my life change so much over the last ten years, some good and some bad. I’m glad I found Melvin, he’s been right there for me all along. If he hadn’t been there when I had my heart attack, I may not be here typing this right now. Troy would be thankful that he is looking out for me. I hope Patty finds help along her journey through grief. It is an everchanging experience. Hope she doesn’t find herself deserted by those she really needs. That happened to me. That was important to Troy, that I have those around me for support. But I found out that you can’t always count on family, even family that you supported the whole time they were growing up. They let others convince them that you are somehow evil and don’t deserve their support. We all have times in our life where we need support and its a good feeling to be able to be that support for others. What goes around definitely comes around. So while we are on this earth, try to show love and support for one another. It’s just that easy……
Jane is a Widow 