In the last week we have lost two widows and one widower. One of the widows was only 35 and leaves behind four children. People don’t understand what grief does to a person. Everyone will eventually have to deal with grief but it’s sad that people lack understanding of what widows and widowers deal with. We all belong to a group that no one wants to belong to. But we didn’t have a choice in the matter unfortunately. So please try to be understanding when dealing with someone who has lost their spouse, show some empathy. Don’t be judgmental….