makes sense. I was talking with a fellow widower at one of our get togethers. I was telling her the situation and what she said to me made total sense. It put it all in perspective. A constant drip drip drip from someone can alter what you believe. Can convince you to believe something other than what really is. Convinces you that your parents are bad and your childhood was bad. Hopefully at some point something will stir and a small opening will be made and that opening will get bigger and bigger until the truth is revealed. This happens to people all the time. They no longer think for themselves someone else tells them what to think and believe. Just like a cult does but it’s actually one person doing it all….or one family.
Jane is a Widow 