Jane is a Widow

The Queens funeral I couldn’t help but notice what is going on in the Royal family. There are so many troublemakers existing today in families causing drama and rift. Made up lies and estrangement. Harry is now estranged from his family because of the absurd comments and trouble caused by his wife. Nobody wins in those situations. Meghan Markle may think she’s in the driver seat (most of them think they are) but eventually all the lies and drama catch up and the price paid can be costly.

We have such good neighbors, one stopped by to ask if we needed anything since Melvin is recovering from surgery. I have an appointment with my cardiologist next week, I’m sure he will tell me to avoid stressors such as toxic family. I sure don’t want to have another heart attack.

you will wake up from your dream world…..and everything will hit you right in the face!

who weave lies will eventually get caught in the web of their own deceit. …Erin Chatters

I’ve learned that I cannot let stress caused by other people affect my health. I’ve had one heart attack and I must protect myself from another. I’m taking steps to protect myself from this one toxic person who really cares nothing about me and never has. Some people are born to be trouble makers unfortunately. I’ve discussed this with my brother and he agrees with me. I thanked him for his advice in dealing with this situation.

Yesterday was my only living aunts birthday. She’s always been such a sweet aunt, always friendly. I only got to see her when we visited my grandparents. She’s always been such a good Christian. Though I didn’t see her often, I still have fond memories of her. On a different note, I am learning so much about toxic, narcissistic people and those who are evil. I now see a lot of the signs I missed such as those at Troy’s funeral. There was a big red flag that I missed cause my mind was a thousand different places at that time.

I talked with my childhood friend last night for hours. We reminisced about different things. We have so many memories from our 50+ years together. We also talked about how when someone does something mean to you. to justify it they have to make up lies about you. But in the end the truth will win, that I know.