Jane is a Widow

humbled by the many birthday wishes I got for my un birthday. I still miss the silly card I always got from Troy. You know me and him were different in so many ways. But we didn’t care. We didn’t try to change each other, we accepted each other just the way we were. Don’t ever let someone try to change you. If someone doesn’t want you in their life unless you change, don’t do it. Narcissists try to manipulate and change people into what they want them to be. Be yourself don’t let them tell you what to think or do. People should love you just the way you are. Don’t let them make you think that you are a bad person just because you think or believe differently. Just keep being you…..❤️

ago I celebrated my first birthday here in Texas. There was a 29th that year and my mom flew here. It seems like it was so long ago, I guess it was. My life has changed so much since that time. You can never know what will happen in your life. I look back and think about how much Troy and I went through during our time together. He went through so much with his parents being ill. We saw a lot of changes in our life, some good and some bad. Makes for a lot of memories that I wouldn’t trade for anything. See you on the flip side Troy…..thanks for the memories. Treasure your loved ones they are only here for a short time….

childhood friends passed away this week. I remember Troy’s stories of playing with David, Bobby and Steve. They were brothers and he lived around the corner from them. It was good that he had friends to play with in Mechanicsburg. When he worked at the bakery, two of them were working there. David and Steve have both passed away. Sending many prayers to Bobby…..

and prayers to my Bridesmaid in 1976 when I married Troy. She is in the hospital now and going to a nursing home next Monday because of her stage 4 cancer. I wish I was closer so I could see her. She was always such a good friend, I pray for her healing. Love you Barb….

that there are thousands of us who are being disrespected among other things. It’s the same story over and over. Really unbelievable. It’s sad what has happened to society, such hate being spewed. Karma will come home one day….

I found Doormat Mom. She has quite a following and I’m now one of them. Let’s see what happens….

Birthday to my Dad on January 19. I miss him a lot. He never said a lot but when he talked I listened. He was a hard worker who was wounded in WWII. I miss his stories about his war time. I really came to know who he was by those stories. He wasn’t even 18 when they drafted him. He was a mortar man and machine gunner. He spent his time on the front line. He was my HERO. I miss you Dad and you will always be my hero…..